For many years my husband and I lived in Richmond where we settled down, worked and raised a family. During 2018, we decided to retire to Blackstone, a small town in Southside Virginia and renovated an old house and embraced rural life. When we moved here, it was practically Mayberry, R.F.D., cliché as this sounds. Very friendly people. . . a much slower pace. . . a daily wildlife show of birds, deer, and rabbits in our yard. . . Errands took about 20 minutes, we rarely had to wait for anything, there was always a parking spot, and you could count on bumping into someone you knew most of the time you went out. And I felt safe.
Not anymore. Urban problems have come to small town America: one of the legacies of the Biden Administration. In many ways Blackstone is typical of what so many places are dealing with.
Besides realizing crime was worse, I concluded too many people were on welfare when they could be working (especially the young); felons often come down here to hide; and locals have seen drug deals on street corners and in parking lots and cemeteries. The Democrats control our General Assembly and since they have made laws more lenient, criminals with serious rap sheets are all over the county. (Part of the problem is the poverty rate is almost 20%.)
Meanwhile, Blackstone is trying to attract more companies for jobs and become a tourist destination since we have museums (Schwartz Tavern and The Robert Thomas Carriage Museum) and some nice restaurants and shops. Not to mention we are 25 miles from Sailor’s Creek, the site of a battle during The Civil War which the Confederates lost so badly General Lee surrendered three days later at Appomattox.
With all this in mind, I decided to do some homework and found out there is actually a lot of good news. For starters we have an excellent police force. Chief Sam Murphy told me we used to have 9,000 to 11,000 calls a year; now we are down to 6,000. Most violations are property crimes: going through cars, larcenies, shoplifting.
Chief Murphy explained most of our serious crime stems from “murders, drugs, home invasions, robberies – even petty stuff like shoplifting are all related to drugs.” Blackstone has 11 officers and one part-timer; another is about to be hired. Being part of the Drug Task Force has helped the area a lot. (From what he told me technology is helping our police, and I will leave it that. This isn’t about Big Brother. It’s about keeping the public safe.)
When I asked him how citizens could help, he explained we need more community involvement. People aren’t willing to be witnesses sometimes because they are afraid, don’t want to be labelled a snitch, or they just don’t like the police.
The town manager, Philip Vannoorbeeck, also gave me reason to think Blackstone is heading in a better direction. They are trying to get a handle on the crime and weed out the troublemakers; through grants and zero interest loans, we have money to replace old sewer systems and update utilities, and community development, like getting rid of blight and building workforce housing, all leads to less crime and poverty. Financially, since Blackstone owns its own electric utility, has the fuel concession at the airfield, and earns a lot of money from things like the meals tax we are “a very full-service community per capita.” Not bad for a town of 3,300. It also doesn’t hurt we have Ft. Pickett, a National Guard base, and a Foreign Affairs Security Training Center (FASTC) in the county.
Our public schools are improving as well. Under the leadership of a new and energetic superintendent, Marcia Martin, student discipline is being focused on, staffing has increased, and there are plans to get the high and middle schools fully accredited.
I also learned from people like Jan Daniel, who owns Ta Da Bakery, that small business owners can help each other. She does what she calls a “tourist pitch” where she talks to customers and makes recommendations for other restaurants and shops to visit. Mrs. Daniel has lived here for five years and says her life hasn’t changed much, and she loves the camaraderie and “It’s quiet. Like a happy town.” She also points out our new mayor, Lafayette Dickens, is doing a wonderful job promoting Blackstone.
If you live in a small town, it is easy to have an impact, so this is my humble advice. If you want things to change for the better, start with a positive attitude. Go meet your town officials and give them ideas and feedback. If you must complain, keep it to the point and constructive; offer some solutions. Thank these individuals for their hard work. Meeting face to face is important: Phone calls, texts, and Facebook don’t have the same impact nowadays.
Disunity is poison to a small community so come up with ways to lead people in a different direction. In Blackstone a group of Republicans and Democrats, who have been deeply divided for years, have started to have breakfast once a month with Mayor Dickens so we can get to know each other better and exchange ideas. I have noticed that when you take a positive step, other people tend to follow suit.


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Interesting that there has not been a peep out of her
I checked out your webpage for a bit. Die hard trumper, I see.
Mayberry, huh? Losing population. Sounds like they relied on tobacco too long.
I agree with Don that it is baloney to blame Biden for your dismal circumstance. Overall, Biden was a good president, officially the 14th best all time.
In addition, he paid attention to you despite your lack of appreciation for him. He gave you millions of dollars in grants to help you improve things. Do you think trump would ever give grants to any place that didn’t like him? I don’t. And I bet that when those projects started and the progress began, all the Republicans were front and center taking all the praise even though not one of them supported the legislations. Not one iota of appreciation for Biden. He was probably not even mentioneed. I have seen that play out over and over and over. Youngkin does it all the time.
Yep, the Dems hold a majority in the GA (thank God) but not enough to override a veto.
You have an excellent police force and arrests are down? LOL……kinda inconsistent with your litany of complaints.
Marcia Martin, your school superintendent, is an inept DEI hire who is unfit for the job. I’ve been involved in public education for over 40 years so challenge that at your own peril.
I know a lot about small towns, too. I raised my kids in a beautiful town, Blue Hill, on the coast of Maine. Population around 2200 last I checked. I was the local CPA.
Finally: ” I have noticed that when you take a positive step, other people tend to follow suit. ” I gree 100%
” Urban problems have come to small town America: one of the legacies of the Biden Administration. ” EXACTLY what did the “Biden administration” have to do with anything? Details, please. Urban problems arrived in small town American LOOOOONG before Biden became President. I have lived in small town, rural Virginia since 1995 — drugs, crime of all sorts, were all part of the scene even then. Mayberry RFD disappeared a long time ago.
” I concluded too many people were on welfare when they could be working . . . ” And you concluded this how? Did you interview all these people? Or did you simply stand in the grocery line and conclude that someone using food stamps was a welfare cheater, too lazy to work?
Your reaction is typical of people who decide to toss the urban life and head for rural America, which they believe to be an unspoiled Eden. Not true and has not been true since the Reagan years when the death of the middle class started, thanks to Ronnie Raygun and his “tinkle down economics.”
good post