The power of role models

Like many in my “twilight” years I frequently find myself looking back and reflecting on how I got to where I am in my life as I prepare for what lies ahead. In addition to being influenced by  some exceptional primary and secondary school teachers, actively participating in the Boy Scouts of America (Cub Scouts through Sea Explorers), and active involvement in Sunday School and Church, I suspect I got to where I am in life today by attempting to emulate two role models that have served as my North Star throughout the highs and lows of  what I consider to be a life well lived. 

Those individuals were my Uncle Dr. Peter Weaver Squire from Emporia VA and my father J. Roswell Poplar Jr. from Havre de Grace MD. Although they were distinct and sperate individuals they shared many common backgrounds and traits. Both came of age in America’s Great Depression, their parents were of modest means – my Uncle’s father “Daddy Buck” ran a service station and yes when you purchased gasoline back in the day your windshield was washed, radiator level checked, and air added to your tires if required all free of charge and with a smile by the owner of the station. My grandfather “Pop-Pop” owned a grocery store where he delivered groceries to customers. In addition, due to the Depression he provide basic essentials such as bread and eggs free of charge to those in need.

Both my Uncles and Father were the first in their family to enter college and at the outbreak of World War II both enlisted in the United States Navy serving in the Pacific Theater. My Uncle “Pete” commanded an Amphibious Ship where amphibious landings were utilized to push back and eventually defeat the Empire of Japan and my Father “Roswell” served in the once of the most dangerous positions – the Pacific submarine forces where his “boat” saw frequent engagements with the enemy, and he was discharged after that conflict as a disabled Veteran. Despite their self-sacrifice, neither like many of the Silent Generation never talked of their wartime exploits. 

After the war my Uncle earned his medical degree, and my Father earned his law degree (at night school) through the use of the G.I. Bill. As their respective careers flourished each gave back to their respective community while raising America’s next generation. My Uncle was instrumental in establishing a local hospital in one of Virgina’s poorest counties where minorities were underserved and typically did not go to a physician because of their low income. Uncle Pete made house calls to many of his Black clients up until the age of ninety-three and typically did not charge for his services. Likewise, my Father practiced law and assisted those in need regardless of their ability to pay for legal services. In addition, both men were extremely active in their local communities and strongly believe it was their responsibility to give back to those who were less fortunate. 

In this crazy online world in which we live where many are subject to the latest “influencers” I would encourage you to rather serve as a role model for those around you. Your actions define not only who you are but may also serve as role model for those seeking real direction and guidance that will define the next generation of Americans.